Divorce results from hard hearts?
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Though He has made a few excursions into Gentile areas (Matt. 8:28–34;
15:21–39), Jesus’ roughly three years of public ministry have thus far been
confined mostly to the region of Galilee (4:12–25; 9:1–7; 10:5–42; 17:24–27). But we see now that He has left Galilee for Judea (19:1–2), the place where His time among His disciples will conclude with His death, resurrection, and ascension.
Upon arriving in Judea, Jesus meets some Pharisees who, as we have come to expect (12:1–14; 15:1–20), seek to test Him once more. Now the issue is
divorce, and the Pharisees’ question (19:3) is rooted in the controversy over
marriage in their day. First-century Jews interpreted Deuteronomy 24:1–4,
which allows for divorce on the grounds of “indecency,” in two major ways.
Rabbi Hillel and his students understood “indecency” liberally, allowing a
husband to divorce his wife for anything not up to snuff, even the quality of
her cooking. More conservative were Rabbi Shammai and his disciples. They
generally read the divorce-permitting ground of “indecency” as lewd sexual
behavior. Even so, Shammai allowed those who divorced for other reasons to
remarry. For reasons of their own, the Pharisees want to know whose view Jesus
prefers.
However, the starting point for a marriage discussion cannot be the argument
as to what constitutes lawful grounds for divorce. As Christ teaches, we must
look first to God’s original intent for marriage: a lifelong bond between one
man and one woman (Matt. 19:4–6; see Gen. 2:24). The rabbinic debate was
concerned primarily with how one may exit the marriage covenant. Both schools agreed that the old covenant law made a provision for divorce. Yet they differed as to what the provisions were. Divorce is permitted due to the fall, something the Father graciously allows in cases when sin has grievously
shattered the union of husband and wife (v. 8). God permits divorce in select
circumstances to help us endure some effects of sin and the broken
relationships it produces. Had evil not entered the world, there would be no
broken relationships, and hence, no divorce.
John Calvin says that God “did not lay down a law about divorces, so as to
give them the seal of his approbation, but as the wickedness of men could not
be restrained in any other way, he applied what was the most admissible
remedy.” Many of God’s laws are concessions to contain the effects of sin, and
we should be grateful that in His grace the Lord seeks to mitigate the
damaging power of evil. May our deeds be pure so that their effects never need to be contained.
