Healing - do's and don'ts
I offer these tips, each with a do and a don’t, for the Christian who is sick and seeking to be healed from God. This comes from personal experience, and from being around churches who believe in spiritual healing. I often chat with Pastor Kindah Greening on this and other topics.
- But don’t allow your sickness to dominate your personality, and define your existence. If you are with a chronic illness or prolonged recovery, learn how hard to push yourself so that you don’t get into a downward spiral of doing less and less, and hence getting worse, but equally don’t push yourself too hard. Nobody can tell you how hard that is: only trial and error will tell you.
- But don’t let that trust turn into a stoic acceptance of sickness, which is never God’s ultimately best for you. We live in a fallen world and sickness is an alien invader we are to resist not passively welcome.
- But don’t let yourself become morbid and pre-occupied with fear of death. Remember there is always someone worse off than you, and always something to be grateful for. Find things to thank God for and do so!
- But don’t think you must always keep your ‘game face’ on. Its OK to be weak, vulnerable, and to accept the support of others. Jesus is not glorified when you fake it. Your light will shine through your weakness, not by trying to hide it.
- But don’t lie and pretend things are better than they are. Find some people you can be totally open with. You will know who your real friends are at a time like this: they are the people that turn up in your hospital bed, or you wish would be there, but for whatever reason can’t be.
- But don’t let that stop you visiting doctors, and taking medicine: take God’s healing whichever way he wants to give it to you! Medicine is as much a gift of God as a miraculous healing. After all, God gave doctor’s their skills so they can do his work of healing.
- But don’t feel obligated to receive prayer at every opportunity, sometimes well-meaning Christians may urge you to be prayed for and it just won't feel right. You are not your illness.
- But don’t let yourself believe the lie that if you are not healed it is because you do not have enough faith!
- But don’t be disappointed or disillusioned if your healing is delayed by weeks, months, years or even decades.
- But don’t forget that for the Christian, our real hope of healing goes beyond the grave to the great and glorious day when there will be no more sickness.